“The Real Housewives of Orange County” star Alexis Bellino hasn’t really spoken to the other women since they wrapped up the previous season of the show. She decided to attend Tamra Barney’s opening party for her CUT Fitness studio as Vicki Gunvalson’s date, but she ended up being kicked out of the party by Tamra herself after she decided to bring up the past. Although Lydia is new to the group, she wants all of the women to get along and make peace. But Alexis doesn’t really think that Lydia is being supportive of her. According to a new Radar Online report published on May 30, “The Real Housewives of Orange County” star Alexis Bellino is not too thrilled that Lydia isn’t being understanding about her situation with the other women.
“When Lydia and I met for coffee, I really didn’t expect her to keep asking me to be the one to reach out,” Alexis revealed after watching the episode on Monday night. “It’s frustrating, and I truly don’t feel she is putting herself in my shoes.” Of course, Alexis doesn’t really want to make peace with the other women after she was infamously kicked out of Tamra’s party. “By the time we filmed this, we had known each other for quite a few months,” Alexis writes. “We’d had many serious talks, and we had hung out on several occasions, and I feel she should have a better understanding of the dynamic between the girls and me.” Of course, Alexis doesn’t expect Lydia to understand the dynamic between herself and the other women, but she would want Lydia to respect her decision. “It’s not necessary that she agrees with me, but I had hoped she would respect my decision and support me, whether it’s the same choice she would have made or not,” she adds.
As for Lydia, she still believes that making peace is easy. “At this point in the season, I feel like I have figured out my place amongst the woman,” Lydia says. “I’ve started to think perhaps my ‘role’ in this whole group of woman is to be a peacemaker and help everyone get along [sic].” And as fans will see next week, Tamra and Alexis may just make peace. “Maybe Alexis and Tamra could put their past behind them and move on,” she explains. “I know it is not good to hold onto such negativity and so I wanted to encourage Alexis to talk to Tamra.”
What do you think of Lydia’s friendship?