If she won’t sleep with you, does she not love you? I mean every reality show and movie seems to have easy loving. Our moral choices are connected to what we are exposed to and exposed to and exposed to. In fact workouts now have stripper options. Rap songs regularly sing about the dancer in the strip joint. But you are dating an extra interesting woman who keeps saying no. Hmmmmm
Add to this women are designed to please the man they love. So can if you are dating someone and they are saying no this is very crushing. You obviously have chemistry. Pop, zing and yet, her standard. Is her standard just a front? If you aren’t asking questions in the process of your relationship you aren’t really looking for a relationship.
In movies sometimes people don’t even know the other persons name, ‘no standard’ can be presented in such a cool way. Honestly what is truly savvy is not an illusion but the real thing! Do you want to live a caricature life or the real thing truly savvy life?
Are you clear on what you want? If you don’t want her to have self control with you but you do want her to have no interest in others; that is so much harder to do in dating world. In dating world relationships might be off and on. Then if you were loose and you both date others the waters get more and more muddled. There are health concerns there too. God created us and knows the way we flow.
In fact when mainstream Bible scholars like David Jeremiah, Joyce Meyer and Charles Stanley feel we are probably in the end times; this adds a whole new level of reasons to go against the cultural current. The standard is not to stir love until it pleases. Which according to The Word, two will be in the field and one will be taken up; half the virgins waiting for the groom are left behind. So is lining up with the culture worth going through the tribulation? This doesn’t mean they won’t be saved but they won’t be saved from the tribulation. The tribulation will be Hell on earth.
I understand in this culture we all fall. Just forgive yourself and others and bring the right factors in your life. Reading the Bible changes our lives. Our friends and dates change our lives so choose to be the best. And get up and dust yourself off when needed. Keep layering the right things in your life.
A woman who says know is showing she has a savvy, smart standard. She loves and respects God and herself and maybe she loves you too. It doesn’t mean she has no passion. It means she has focus. Have a standard and help her to as well. If she wants to be your Miss January through December don’t be dump and want her and the pig pen. You are designed to be each others fantasy, so guard that. If she is passionate about many things, she will be passionate in being your yes girl at the right time. If its right, marry!
We all want love that never fails!