Many women have discovered the secret of text message flirting and have been able to use its power to effectively get any man’s attention. Text messaging is a lot different than any other form of communication that takes place. It is more powerful than a phone conversation and an email exchange combined. Any woman can use the power of her thumbs to captivate a man and make him think about her and crave her more. In order to learn how to text message flirt effectively every woman must know the right way and wrong way to do it.
5 Examples of text message flirting done the right way
The Confident Woman- Every man loves to see confidence in a woman that he is dating or thinking about dating. Here is a message that you can send a guy right after you meet him and get his number or the night after a great date:
“Stop drooling. You’ll see me again soon =-)”
This type of text message works effectively because it assumes that the guy is attracted to you and he is thinking about you. It shows strong confidence and will turn him on!
The Favorite Part- This type of text message will show a little bit of your vulnerable side which is also great, because men love to see the vulnerability in women. It can be used right after a date, but will need to be adapted to your specific situation.
“That was fun. My favorite part was when you put your hand on the small of my back outside the movie. It sent a little thrill through me. I wonder what will happen next time?”
The Tease- There is no better way to find out what is on a man’s mind than teasing the information out of him. This one is very simple and very effective:
“If you were here right now . . . =-)”
There is no need to go any further than that. Let his imagination tell him what would happen if he were there. If he responds with something dirty then you can respond back with something like:
“Woah! And here I thought we were just friends. =-)”
You will really get his motor running with a series of texts such as these.
Getting to Know You- These types of texts should be simple questions that he can answer in a sentence or two. You do not want them to be too personal and you want them to be something that he can easily answer. Here are a few examples:
“If you could be anywhere right now where would you be?”
“What’s the single most badass thing you’ve done in the last 10 minutes?”
“If you found out a girl had done hard core prison time how would you feel about her?” (OK, that’s kind of a tease.)
Just keep it light and fun and see where it goes!
The Anticipator- These types of text messages can be used before a date to build up anticipation. If used effectively, this type of text message flirting will have him all over you by the time he sees you. Here are a few examples of these types of texts:
You: “When I see you tonight I’m going to . . .”
You: “Oh, you’ll find out . . . =-)”
“You can’t even imagine how it’s going to feel when I . . .”
Make sure not to give him all of the information or he will have nothing to anticipate. Leave him hanging on the edge so that he begs for more.
Michael Fiore has a program called Capture His Heart that teaches woman how to make men fall in love with them in 3 simple steps. It is a self study program that includes the art of text message flirting and much more. Any woman who wants to make a man fall head over heels for her should take a couple of minutes to look at the introduction video on his website. He is also the creator of a program called Text the Romance Back which has been featured in national media such as the Rachel Ray Show and others. This program is also highly recommended.
Now that we have covered the right way to text message flirt it is time to cover the wrong way. These tips could help you avoid some of the costly mistakes that women make when they are trying to capture a man’s attention through text messaging.
4 Examples of text message flirting done the wrong way
The Nothing Text- This type of text message has no substance to it and does not let the guy know exactly what you want from him. Here are a few examples:
Your goal is to flirt with the guy through text, so make it go somewhere. Make your text part of a conversation and part of a story.
The Story of My Life- When you are flirting with guys through text the best way to approach it is to keep your messages short. Limit them to only a sentence or two so that you do not end up telling an entire story with one message. Keep your messages as mysterious as possible so that he will want more. If you tell him everything at once then he will have no reason to want to see you or talk to you again so soon.
Naked Pictures- Taking naked photos of yourself and sending them to a guy can work wonders if he is pursuing you; however, there is a reason this is the wrong approach. When you send a guy a naked picture and you are not in a relationship with that guy he is likely going to show it to his friends, and your picture is going to end up on the internet. If you feel like you absolutely have to send some type of nude picture to a guy then leave your face out of it.
The Needy Text- You never want to send a guy a text that makes him feel that you are too needy. That is a major turn off that could make a man pull away from you very quickly. Here are a few examples:
“Where are you?”
“Why didn’t you call me?”
“What are you doing right now?”
“Are you with another girl?”
“Do you like her better than me?”
If you want to test a message that you are going to send, then send it to your best guy friend and ask him how he would feel if a girl sent him a text like that and see what he thinks. If he says he would absolutely freak out, run away, or anything else that would have an adverse reaction, then delete it and do not send it to the guy you were going to send it to.
Learning the right and wrong way to text message flirt can benefit you tremendously, because it will help give you some skills that very few women have and avoid the pitfalls that all other women fall into. If you are really into a guy and want to make him fall in love with you, then make sure to take a look at Michael Fiore’s products Capture His Heart and Text the Romance Back today!