There are several women who are faced with the problem of men pulling away from relationships when things start to get serious. Most of the time there is no explanation from the man as to why he is starting to withdraw from the relationship, and women are left feeling puzzled and needing an explanation. It is as though one minute he is acting fine and everything is as it should be, but then, in the blink of an eye, he starts acting different as though he is unsure of whether or not he really wants to be in a relationship anymore. The question is: Why do men pull away from relationships?
The one word that sums up the reason men pull away is fear. In an article on lovedoctorjeff.com there are four main fears listed that men have about serious relationships. The first fear is the loss of freedom he will have by staying in the relationship. Men are afraid that they will lose the freedom to do the things they would normally do if they were not involved in a serious relationship. Next, men are afraid that women will try to change them once they are seriously involved. Men are also afraid that women will change into someone they do not like. Finally, a man is afraid that the woman he gets in a serious relationship with will be the last one that he will ever have sex with. These fears cause panic to set in and all kinds of wild thoughts to run through a man’s mind which can make him start acting differently than the woman is used to him acting. Some men even break off the relationship to take time to figure out what they really want.
The article on lovedoctorjeff.com also discusses different time periods in the relationship when men are likely to start pulling away. Women should be most aware of men’s actions during the 3, 6, and 11 month landmarks of their relationships if they are worried about their men withdrawing.
Once women understand why men pull away in relationships there is still a problem that exists. How to stop men from pulling away and make them be devoted to the relationship. One relationship expert who goes by the name T Dub has created a solution to this problem. In his free video presentation he discusses how to capture a man’s interest and keep him devoted for good.
It is important for women to understand that there is nothing they are doing wrong that is making their men feel the way they do. Fear is to blame for the actions that are taking place within the man who is threatening to get out of the relationship. In order to keep him devoted it is crucial to address those fears with him and give him the comfort he needs to feel safe in the relationship.