The beginning of the end As the tightness slowly releases itself around your aorta; The pain heavily flows through the tears that penetrate the thick layers of your skin. And the questions begin; When did you get so soft enough to let them dominate your entire being? When was it that you allowed this relationship to become an ‘In to me’ or intimacy moments to establish an impenetrable bond? We are not created equal by any means. That old saying Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus is an understatement. Men might be physically dominant, but women have the innate ability to break and solve cases without a zilch of medical examination and physical evidence. Women will agree and Men please read carefully. Do not by any means cheat. A woman knows and if she says she did not she will later realize that she did. Women do not assume that every man will cheat, there are men out there that will do you right. According to the data by Journal of Marital and Family Therapy on www.statisticbrain.com/infidelity-statistics/, there was only a 3% difference between women 54% and men 57% who admitted to infidelity.
The process The ability to detect infidelity comes naturally to women and with time and experience to men.
- It starts with that queasy feeling in the solar plexus that makes you want to use the bathroom for no apparent reason. This occurs the second your mate sees or meet the potential candidate that can possibly sever your relationship.
- That same feeling then slowly rises into the heart; Where the ache begins to cause cracks of doubt in every word and action by the accuser. This begins when they spend unnecessary time together.
- Finally taking over every crevice of your mind and driving you insane to the point of no return; Which is when they are guilty of infidelity beyond unreasonable doubt.
The reaction From this point there are several reactions that the culprit will experience from their mate; one confrontation, two silent treatment or three absolution. All of which will result in the ends never justifying the means. Even redemption comes with a cost, and breaking one’s heart is easy; But keeping it whole is tougher than breaking diamonds, and a mission that will prove that love is not a feeling but a choice. A decision made to see that the grass can be greener on your side if you water it faithfully.